Sunday, 9 August 2026

Lolita 52 Challenge / day 20 / How satisfied I am with my current wardrobe

 A solid 6/10

I've mentioned this many times before so I'll give a brief recap

I focused too much on buying main pieces and "coords" instead of getting staple pieces, outwear and just in general items that could fit all together with clothes. Basically a coherent wardrobe. Right now I'm paying for my mistake and working on acquiring all the basics that I'm missing 

In addition, I realized pretty late the value of cutsew and how convenient they are in general, but also for me who strives to be a lifestyler. Looking back, wearing blouses is pretty stressful especially an expensive one- Cutsews are a great and comfortable option for everyday use. Same thing for skirts- for a long time I thought I couldn't wear them because of my height but I managed to prove myself wrong and I'm extremely happy about this discovery. From now on I'm paying more attention to skirts and cutsews and want more of them in my collection

Saturday, 8 August 2026

Lolita 52 Challenge / day 19 / Trends I thought I loved, but now I'm not too keen on

I had plans to do the same thing as day 18 (adding aspects of lolita i used to like instead of trends but the only thing that comes to mind is those modern day lacemonster you can find on Taobao reselling sites (in this case 42lolita)

At the very beginning pf my lolita fashion journey, those were the types of dresses I was really attracted to and looking back, it was probably the high and excitement of finding a new style. I kept daydreaming about being a princess walking outside

Now I know and understand the quality issues with said dresses, I know that himelolita isn't inherently low quality but it just isn't my style period. It's a shame that these low quality dresses remain popular today despite the community's warnings


Friday, 7 August 2026

Lolita 52 Challenge / day 18 / Trends I thought I would never get into, but I now love

Like I’ve mentioned in day 11, I don’t think I’ve been in the lolita fashion community long enough to be familiar with any trends, so I’ll answer this question in my own way. I wanna add some aspects of lolita fashion I used to dislike before/never thought I’d get into but love today!


I’d never though I’d (get to) wear skirts!

Partially because I’m tall, I was too worried about the struggle of finding a blouse long enough to cover my stomach and a skirt that would fit me the way I want. Today I can confidently say it is possible for me too! The other reason I was reluctant to wear skirts was because I was too afraid of looking boring, I relied a lot on my JSK to carry the coord but again, today I can confidently say that coording skirts is very fun too! I will keep learning and evolving

I used to find Rocking Horse Shoes ugly

This is a secret…that’s how I used to feel at the very beginning of my lolita fashion journey…LOL Honestly how could I think such a thing??? Today they’re my favorite pair of lolita shoes ever, La Vie en Rose RHS from Bodyline to be specific! I currently own a white pair that’s beat up from daily use (sign of love), I’d like to buy them in pink and black next. I wanna try a ballerina lace up version too but I’m afraid the lacing might constantly fall off and be annoying to deal with

I didn’t think I’d be into Metamorphose

I have no idea why, but when I got into lolita I thought meta was a gothic brand like Moitié, and later looking at their new releases I saw that it was a more classic type of brand but then I discovered their old releases…This shift happened when I bought my first ever meta item in mid-June, the Short Sleeve School Blouse from 2007. I first got hyperfixated on Meta’s blouses from that year, I soon started looking at mainpieces too and a whole new world opened up to me. My wishlist is full of old school Metamorphose it’s just the most perfect thing ever..!


Thursday, 6 August 2026

Lolita 52 Challenge / day 17 / My first meetup

My first every lolita meetup was on January this year with my local lolita community in the new city I had moved to. To be honest I missed and skipped many meet ups because I was either sick, out of town or too depressed to go out. But that day I finally managed to and I’m extremely happy! I had been in the group chat for a while but didn’t actually know anyone so it was great meeting some of the members face to face

We went to a small café where we just sat down and talked. I was very broke at the time, so I only ordered a cup of tea, but it still felt nice to have so company after a while. I sat and sipped my tea while listening to the conversation happening around me. It’s a shame I had to leave pretty early. I didn’t take any picture cause I was pretty nervous and tired (but these are some on the official Instagram account)

Unfortunately I continued missing many comm meetups after that due to the reasons listed above, but there’s a meetup this Saturday afternoon and I’m going TEEHEE!!!

My transition from 2010s sweet lolita to old school sweet lolita

When I was very new to lolita, my eyes were regrettably staring at those modern day lace monsters that are still very popular today. My first ever purchase was THAT sugar girl JSK set with the bonnet, then I got that one princess sleeve blouse with some lace up white OTKs and a pair of pink heels with lace borders (that ended up being too big). I never actually wore out the dress, when I first laid my hands on it I immediately noticed the bad quality and quickly complained to 42lolita’s customer service…which lead to absolutely nothing. I sold the dress on vinted and quickly learned to look for quality pieces somewhere else

Like many people, I was a big fan of Angelic Pretty’s iconic sweet era, especially as a newbie this was all very new and exciting for me. I’d spend countless hours just looking and magazine scans and any posts online reminiscing of OTT sweet with lots of colors, accessories and details. Unfortunately those AP and BABY dresses were too expensive (and sometimes not the right fit) for me, so I turned to Taobao and started buying secondhand on Xianyu as well

I was (and still am) very fond of Taobao, I discovered this brand N.N.Star to whom I made a lot of deposits for various items. I really liked the sweet designs and also the store owner, a very hard working woman who draws all the prints and designs the pieces herself, she also personally oversees the garments productions. I wanted to support her with all I had! Today her style no longer aligns with what I have today but I still keep recommending her sometimes!

Trying to trace back on when this shift in my journey happened, I’d say around late 2025. 'Old school lolita' had always been at the back of my mind, like when I began making those “old school” lolita videos with my digicam and any lolitas on xiaohongshu are very fond of old school, their videos and  posts trying to replicate that vibe really inspired and stuck with me

I believe I truly started becoming infatuated with it when I started reading more and more about lolita fashion's history from 90s-00s. I was reading A LOT about lolita fashion in general, academic papers (from simply about the clothes, to the depths of kawaii culture), blogs, forums...and I can't not mention the influence Novala Takemoto had in my life. It completely changed my whole perspective on old school lolita and from there, every day I learned to adore more and more these simpler coords, where you can really tell people wore lolita as fun daily clothes using what they had (ie. No pressure in trying to look “polished”) and especially as a lifestyler old school was the look and comfort I want to achieve. I believe that a subculture should have guidelines in order for a style to remain recognizable but for old school the lines are very bendable and it’s a lot of fun!

I also deeply appreciate the love me and the people from 20 years ago (or more!) share with these garments. Holding in my hands my main pieces from 2005, 2002... I wonder how the previous owner must’ve felt when they put on them on, the amount of love and care it must’ve gone through in order to end up in my hands today. I vow to take care of these clothes with all the love in the world until it’s my turn to pass them down to someone else one day

I can’t lie I’m extremely sensitive of the way some people speak about old school lolita. I get so irritated when someone gets their facts wrong and I try to correct them as nicely as possible of course but unfortunately the misinformation spreads faster. I don’t like it when people treat old school like a substyle instead of a tag you put in front of something (same for shiro, kuro, casual, OTT…) For example you can have an old school gothic coord or old school [brand name]. When I say stuff like “I love old school lolita” I am aware of this fact of course, it is at the back of my mind and I assume most of my lolita friends understand it too but unfortunately many out there don’t know about this…

It really helps define a specific style in more detail. It doesn’t help that 42lolita has “old school” listed separate as its own style alongside sweet, classic, gothic. When you click it it’s a mix of all 3 substyles that barely even gives a hint of an old school vibe. I think 42lolita only fucks things up and actively creates more confusion for those who already don’t even do any basic research of lolita fashion. Those same people will comment on you for not wearing a petticoat..Okay..!

Today I only have eyes for old school sweet, every feeling I described has multiplied by 10. It’s hard to describe what I feel when I look at these old street snaps, I honestly tear up sometimes because of how overwhelmingly happy I get. I love the simplicity and passion from that time and to try to get closer to that feeling, I started taking most of my lolita pictures with my digicam, I later started this blog and also posting my pictures on Flickr! It's I seriously full of hidden gems when it comes to old Jingu Bashi pictures (I wish things like this still happened today! I wonder how we can build back up this kind of culture…) It also really eases my mind to be able to disconnect a bit and revert to simpler things like this

I’m going to continue seeking inspiration from these old street snaps and strive to grow my authentic old school collection! I barely even care about new releases, I might take a peek at BABY’s classical series, but when it comes to mainpieces I’d always rather buy the older release from the 2000s 

Thanks for reading my love letter for old school lolita ^_^


Wednesday, 5 August 2026

Lolita 52 Challenge / day 16 / 10 facts about my Lolita wardrobe

Here are 10 facts about my lolita wardrobe as of today!

1. The oldest piece I own is the Viyella Gingham Poodle Skirt from Heart E

2. I don’t own enough accessories… (I know I keep whining about this sorry, but I need to remind myself to buy more!!!)

3. My most common brands are Meta and ETC

4. Most of my socks are off brand

5. I like to collect anything cute with poodles on it

6. My first brand mainpieces is the Bambi JSK in pink from Innocent World

7. I try to build my wardrobe in a way that most items can be paired together

8. My most common colors are pink, white and black

9. I wash my blouses nearly after every use (I wanna write about this routine)

10 The mainpiece with the most coords is the Shirley Temple Snow Town Pattern Fur Collar JSK from Shirley temple (3)

Tuesday, 4 August 2026

Lolita 52 Challenge / day 15 / 3 things I wish I was told when I was a new Lolita

Get your staples right!

Invest in good neutral blouses and socks. Get yourself a sturdy pair of black mary janes and also please invest in outwear…This blog post from fyeahlolita is great and I still refence it today!

Focus on versatility in your wardrobe

This kinda ties back to the previous point, you need to stack up on accessories and cutsews, I’m paying for my mistake today trying to catch up on all the basic stuff I'm missing…Why do I not have a pink kc..? huh??

Don’t let your height discourage you from wearing lolita

Thankfully I’ve never given up even after spending countless hours worrying about the fit of the clothes. I knew the knee rule was a thing of the past (and even just by looking at old street snaps you’d realize how bogus that made up rule in the west was) but when I got into lolita, this discourse was running rampant on TikTok and it really took a hit on me. Today I am proud to be a confident tallita and I want to keep inspiring those around me to wear lolita too no matter how tall they are! (I'm 183cm~)

Monday, 3 August 2026

Lolita 52 Challenge / day 14 / Lolitas I would love to meet

My one true idol Novala Takemoto! He is such an important figure withing lolita fashion, although Novala has been a bit forgotten nowadays, we cannot deny he had a great impact. Novala helped promote the fashion and culture further through his work despite any backlash. I love his writing and ideals, Novala's words are like the Bible to me... I admire his dedication for the preservation of lolita fashion’s history

(still waiting on that book he’s working on)

Alongside him Mana-sama, Kaya and Misako Aoki of course! I’m also always excited to meet any new or veteran lolitas living in my area and anywhere in the country…Let’s all be friends!


Picture of the week - week 11

I was going through another major depressive episode last week. I began to isolate myself again an just wanted to let the days pass by quietly, but Wednesday was expectedly sunny, so I tried reaching out to my friend if she’d like to meet up with me (I also needed an excuse to wear out my new coord!!) and happily she said yes ^_^

We met up at a mall then immediately headed to grab some mandatory boba to start our day, that’s when she gifted me some football cards of players I liked uwahh I’m so happy! They look so cool with grumpy Kaiji! Afterwards we went through different thrift stores and in between those walks there was A LOT of talk about football, I enjoy our conversations so much!! (sadly we didn’t score anything at the thrifts that day) Later both bought and unboxed football cards too (my first time in many many years) before settling down somewhere to continue talking. I got to open up about some more personal things too and It was very comforting

I had so much fun with her that day, socializing and laughing with someone like this was very refreshing and honestly healing...I already miss her a lot! ~♥


Sunday, 2 August 2026

Happy birthday to me! ^_^

I didn’t feel like doing much today, I initially wanted to let this day pass by quietly and only stayed home but I still got out of bed to film a tiktok video, I’m grateful for all the birthday wishes I received from everyone and my friend even drew me and Kaiji together! I was so happy I cried…


Lolita 52 Challenge / day 13 / Lolitas I have met in real life

 I've met many many lolitas this past year! and a lot of them have become my friends <3 which I’m infinitely grateful for! For a small country such as Finland you wouldn’t expect the lolita community to be so large, and I also like how tightknit it is! Nearly everyone knows and follows each other. It’s a very kind, accepting and safe community!

I believe Ive met everyone through anime conventions? If you’re not a lifestyler I think it’s the most “appropriate” place to wear lolita and It’s a lot of fun too!

Saturday, 1 August 2026

Lolita 52 Challenge / day 12 / Combining other fashions with Lolita

This is gonna be a short post, I’m struggling to come up with any fun combinations since, to me, lolita is such a set style when you combine it with a style it becomes another subtyle and many of those already exist!

Like lolita+decora= decololi or lolita+punk= punklolita

I guess you could make more combinations like lolita+scene!